Working
at Home Doesn't Have to Mean Feeling Alone
by: Vishal P. Rao
Operating a home-based business
may let you set your own schedule, spend more time with your children,
and earn more money but it does have its own set of challenges. One
of those challenges can be a feeling of loneliness.
Many home-based business workers
spend all their time trapped within the confines of their house. They
eat in their own kitchen, type email on their own computer, and socialize
with their own family once they return from the outside world. At
first, this might seem like a welcome change from the stressful interactions
in the average workplace, but when continued day after day, it can
dramatically affect your mood and your productivity.
Luckily, you can combat those
negative feelings and keep your home-based business. Here are a few
suggestions:
1) Establish a Routine
Very often the flexibility
of working at home can deteriorate into disorder and chaos, which
usually leads to longer hours and less socialization. A well-established
routine allows you to get your work done and have time to mingle.
For example, you could set office hours from 8 am to 5 pm. Once you
finish working each evening, you'll be free to unwind and interact
with people for the rest of the night without the distraction of your
business. Plus, you'll be forced to use those time management skills
which were so essential when you working for someone else.
2) Take a walk with a spouse,
friend, or dog
If you visit any workplace,
you are bound to find people walking on their lunch breaks. They don't
just do this for the calorie-burning benefits, however. It's also
a good way to release stress and to enjoy the company of other people.
You can do the same thing, but you may need to schedule your outings
so they are convenient for your “walking buddy.” Of course,
if you opt to take your favorite canine companion along, he or she
will be available whenever the need to wander strikes.
3) Join a health club
Exercise is an excellent stress
reliever, plus it fights against two other common work-at-home problems:
over-indulgence in food and sedentary lifestyles. But exercising on
a stationary bike or treadmill in your bedroom won't be enough to
fight that feeling of isolation. A health club, on the other hand,
is a perfect answer because it provides lots of exercise opportunities
and a chance to meet new people. Sure, club memberships can be pricey
but your health and well-being are worth it.
4) Get a hobby
One of the bad things about
owning a home-based business is that you probably turned your hobby
into your livelihood which often takes a lot of the fun out of it,
so now you need a new hobby. The best choice would be something that
required you to get involved with other people, such as team sports.
However, most solitary activities can also be used for socializing.
For example, if you like to read, you could join a weekly book club.
5) Go to the movies
Chances are those people you
love who spend 8-10 hours a day in the outside world probably want
to rent a DVD, microwave some popcorn, and watch a film in the comfort
of their living rooms instead of venturing out into the dark, crowded,
and sticky-floored world of theaters. You, however, should resist
the urge. Watching a movie in public with a group of people around
is the ultimate socialization experience. Even though you don't know
everyone in the theater, you are connected for those two hours (or
however long the movie runs). Of course, if you can take your spouse,
your friends, your children, or even your parents along, you definitely
should. But if they'd rather stay home and vegetate on the couch,
you can always go alone.
6) Buy a laptop computer
Owning a home-based business
doesn't mean you are never allowed to leave your house. Of course,
you don't want to miss out on valuable work, but you also don't want
to a prisoner in your home office. If you buy a laptop, you can have
the best of both worlds. You'll stay connected to your work and you
can actually go out into the world. You can work while you sip coffee,
relax at the park, or sit on your front porch. All of which will give
you a much-needed chance to reconnect with the rest of the world.
7) Get a part-time job
You probably started your own
home-based business to escape the rat race so you might be hesitant
about getting back out there. Even ten hours a week is enough to keep
you sane, but should not be enough to drive you crazy. One freelance
writer I know who works out of her home also teaches a five hour weekly
writing course to college students in order to rejuvenate after hours
of isolation. The class lets her be social, do something she enjoys,
and earn a reliable stream of additional income. The effects of a
part-time could be equally beneficial for you.
As you may have noticed, all
of these ideas have one thing in common: they force you to leave your
home. The reason is that the only way to feel like you're not isolated,
is to not isolate yourself. Taking a few minutes each day to talk
to your working friends on the phone, to stroll through nature, or
to spend quality time with your family is all it really takes to keep
your productive and happy.